The Best Way to Experience The Real Japan? – Stay In A Ryokan

Typical ryokan room interior, stay in a ryokan
Typical ryokan room interior

You must stay in a ryokan!

There are many things you can do, and experience, in the land of the rising sun that will get you closer to and give you a feel for The Real Japan. But, for me, there is one experience that stands above all others in delivering that enigmatic essence of feeling like you’ve really felt and experienced The Real Japan. What is it?

To experience The Real Japan you must stay in a ryokan.

A ryokan is an inn or guest house. But not all ryokan are equal. Whilst there are modern versions that go by the same name, I’m talking about a traditional ryokan. Those that are built from wood in the historical style, usually just one or two storeys.

You should also do your utmost to ensure that the ryokan you choose has an onsen – that is a natural hot spring. Onsen can be found inside the ryokan, outside (a roten-buro) or even, as I once memorably experienced, a cave under the ryokan!

There are ryokan all over Japan. From the middle of cities, to high up remote mountains. For my money (and yours – trust me), you want the rural option. Whilst staying in a traditional wooden inn in the middle of Tokyo is possible, it isn’t what we’re looking for. We want it either in the countryside overlooking farmland or natural landscapes or high up in the mountains.


One course of a traditional ryokan dinner, stay in a ryokan, the real japan
One course of a traditional ryokan dinner

Spring and winter are the best seasons to stay in a ryokan

You can stay in a ryokan any time of the year – although you may want to give summer a miss as it gets very hot and the humidity can be extremely high. Not a pleasant combination. Spring is ideal as you can catch some sakura cherry blossom at the same time. Autumn gives you the fire red leaves of the season.

Winter is perfect if the idea of spending time soaking outside in a natural hot spring whilst snow gently falls is part of your plan. Being able to just get through high passes, that are cut-off by heavy snow falls at the peak of the season, to emerge on the other side to find a snow-covered ryokan surrounded by nothing but a silent forest is a beautiful thing.

When you arrive, staff wearing kimono will welcome and greet you by calling out “Irrashaimase!” or “welcome”. They will then ask you to switch from your shoes (for use outside) to slippers (for use inside) – as is the Japanese culture. Rooms are frequently named after flowers rather than having numbers.

So you’re far more likely to be staying in the “Chrysanthemum suite” than “Room 9”. Ryokan are, generally speaking, small, often family-run concerns, some with as few as 4 or 5 rooms. Think small and perfectly formed more than big and brash (although the latter do exist).

Forget about carrying your own bags or cases. No matter how old or infirm some staff may appear to be they will insist on transferring your luggage for you, often with more strength than yourself!


Traditional ryokan, stay in a ryokan, the real japan
Traditional ryokan

Customer service like you’ve never known

You’ll be shown to your room which will be more like a multi-room suite than the cramped western style hotels you’ll find in cities. Rooms are furnished with traditional tatami mats for flooring and, for sitting on, legless chairs, called zaisu, which (just about) slide under a low-level table in the middle of the room, and floor cushions, called zabuton.

A maid will then come into the room to serve you, the weary traveller, complimentary green tea and sweets (after you’ve wiped your hands on the warm towel provided, of course). You will usually have to sign the register too and confirm your dinner requirements. Dinner will be served either in your room (the most traditional method) or in a dining room which doubles as restaurant and breakfast lounge.

Some rooms have balconies, many have picturesque views across the local landscape. You might be fortunate to have your own bath, some of which are cleverly placed in one corner with wooden screens that slide back on two sides so that your bath now not only directly overlooks the countryside (forest, mountains, rice fields, rivers and so on) but feels like it is actually positioned outside.

Your slippers will be near the entrance to your room (remember – no shoes inside Japanese houses!), and your personal yukata (lightweight kimonos) will be in a cupboard. You are advised, henceforth, to transfer from your Western clothing (and mindset) to fully embrace Japanese tradition. You are then left to your own devices.

Time to explore the facilities of your ryokan and the landscape outside.


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The facilities are set out in a guide in your room (there’s usually an English translation). They can encompass all sorts of luxuries including onsen, spa treatment rooms, in-room shiatsu massage, a library (including English-language books), a karaoke room. Sometimes, exterior pathways taking you for walks out into the nearby landscape, and almost all ryokan have a souvenir shop selling local foods, candy and trinkets.

There may be an entertainment room that may showcase local musicians, artists, flower arrangers (ask at reception for details on what’s coming up if the schedule isn’t on display). The options to keep you entertained are virtually endless. But, at their heart, ryokan are about pampered simplicity.

Whilst you are pre-occupied elsewhere, maids will have been at work, and you’ll return to your room to find that, almost magically, the room has changed from a living space into a bedroom.

Your snug futon mattresses already made so you can slip into them for a peaceful and restful sleep. The maid will also see that these are cleared away in the morning. Normally you are not expected to pay for your stay until before you leave on the last morning.


Onsen in Nachikatsuura, Japan (Chris 73 / Wikimedia Commons), stay in a ryokan, the real japan
Onsen in Nachikatsuura, Japan (Chris 73 / Wikimedia Commons)


You may have gathered from all this wonderfulness that staying in a ryokan isn’t often the cheapest way to stay somewhere, but it will be worth every penny.

I cannot emphasise this enough. In my view, nothing gets you closer to the cultural heart of Japan, and the Japanese, like staying in a ryokan will.

I cannot emphasise this enough. In my view, nothing gets you closer to the cultural heart of Japan, and the Japanese, like staying in a ryokan will. If you can stay for several nights the sense of relaxation, peacefulness and old-fashioned, waited-on luxury is hard to beat.

If staying in a roykan is outside your budget then don’t worry! We’ll be covering a more budget-conscious alternative, minshuku, in a future article – so stay tuned and subscribe so you do not miss it.

TRJ Top Tips

Cash Only?
Some ryokan will take payment only in cash – not credit or debit card (though they may ask for credit card details as security). Be sure to check this in advance when making your booking so you have enough cash with you during your stay if you do need it.

Free Transfers
Ryokan in remote places will often arrange to collect you from the nearest train station, bus stop or harbour. If they do offer this they’ll normally be happy to drop you off for the return journey too. Better still, this service is usually free of charge. Ask if they offer this when making your booking enquiries.

Western Dietary Requirements
The chance to eat uncommon, regional or local cuisine is, for the Japanese, usually one of the factors to consider when choosing a ryokan. Meals are usually eye-popping banquets and the price of them can be high. But as a rare treat it’s worth considering including dinner (if only for one night) in your stay.

One or two dishes may occasionally test even the most adventurous of Japanese foodies, so feel free to ask for a ‘Western’ alternative. Which can sometimes mean either an entirely Western version of dinner or, more commonly, the main dish can be switched for something more palatable. Typically, this would mean substituting beef for an esoteric raw fish dish.


Typical main course ryokan breakfast, stay in a ryokan, the real japan
Typical main course ryokan breakfast

Breakfast on the go

If you are planning a full day out during your stay and wish to leave early, tell the staff the day before and ask if that instead of you eating breakfast in the morning (which you don’t have time for) if they can prepare a packed breakfast/picnic that you can eat whilst you are travelling. If this is something they offer you might be delighted to see what they can rustle up!

The Japanese Guest Houses website is a helpful starting place to find ryokan throughout Japan:

Japanese Ryokan Association:


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